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Why is love so painful?

Why is love so painful?  

 Love is painful

Love is painful because it creates the way for bliss. Love is painful because it transforms; love is mutation.

Each transformation is going to be painful,  because the old has to be left for the new. The old is familiar, secure, safe.. The new is absolutely unknown. You will be moving in an uncharted ocean. You cannot use your mind with the new.. with the old, the mind is skillful. The mind can function only with the old.

with the new, the mind is utterly useless. Hence, fear arises, and leaving the old, comfortable, safe world, the world of convenience, pain arises.

It is the same pain that the child feels when he comes out of the womb of the mother.  


It is the same pain that the bird feels when he comes out of the egg. 
It is the same pain that the bird will feel when he will try for the first time to be on the wing. 

The fear of the unknown, and the security of the known, the insecurity of the unknown, the unpredictability of the unknown, makes one very much frightened.

And because the transformation is going to be from the self towards a state of no-self, agony is very deep. But you cannot have ecstasy without going through agony. 

If the gold wants to be purified, it has to pass through fire. 

Love is fire,

It is because of the pain of love, millions of people live a loveless life. They too suffer, and their suffering is futile.

To suffer in love is not to suffer in vain.

To suffer in love is creative; it takes you to higher levels of consciousness.

To suffer without love is utterly a waste; it leads you nowhere, it keeps you moving in the same vicious circle.

The man who is without love is narcissistic, he is closed. He knows only himself.

And how much can he know himself if he has not known the other, because only the other can function as a mirror? You will never know yourself without knowing the other. 


Love is very fundamental for self-knowledge too. The person who has not known the other in deep love, in intense passion, in utter ecstasy, will not be able to know who he is, because he will not have the mirror to see his own reflection.


Relationship is a mirror, and the purer the love is, the higher the love is, the better the mirror, the cleaner the mirror. But the higher love needs that you should be open. The higher love needs you to be vulnerable. You have to drop your armor; that is painful. 


You have not to be constantly on guard. You have to drop the calculating mind. You have to risk. You have to live dangerously. The other can hurt you; that is the fear in being vulnerable. The other can reject you; that is the fear in being in love. The reflection that you will find in the other of your own self may be ugly; that is the anxiety.

Avoid the mirror. But by avoiding the mirror you are not going to become beautiful. By avoiding the situation you are not going to grow either. The challenge has to be taken. One has to go into love.


That is the first step towards God, and it cannot be bypassed.

Those who try to bypass the step of love will never reach God.

That is absolutely necessary because you become aware of your totality only when you are provoked by the presence of the other, when your presence is enhanced by the presence of the other, when you are brought out of your narcissistic, closed world under the open sky.  
Love is an open sky..



To be in love is to be on the wing. But certainly, the unbounded sky creates fear. And to drop the ego is very painful because we have been taught to cultivate the ego. We think the ego is our only treasure. We have been protecting it, we have been decorating it, we have been continuously polishing it,

and when love knocks on the door, all that is needed to fall in love is to put aside the ego; certainly it is painful. It is your whole life's work, it is all that you have created --

This ugly ego, this idea that "I am separate from existence." This idea is ugly because it is untrue.   This idea is illusory, but our society exists, is based on this idea that each person is a person, not a presence.

The truth is that there is no person at all in the world; there is only presence. You are not -- not as an ego, separate from the whole. You are part of the whole. The whole penetrates you, the whole breathes in you, pulsates in you, the whole is your life.


Love gives you the first experience of being in tune with something that is not your ego.

Love gives you the first lesson that you can fall into harmony with someone who has never been part of your ego.

If you can be in harmony with a woman, if you can be in harmony with a friend, with a man, if you can be in harmony with your child or with your mother, why can't you be in harmony with all human beings? And if to be in harmony with a single person gives such joy, what will be the outcome if you are in harmony with all human beings? And if you can be in harmony with all human beings, why can't you be in harmony with animals and birds and trees? Then one step leads to another.

 Love is a ladder,

It starts with one person, it ends with the totality

Love is the beginning, God is the end.


To be afraid of love, to be afraid of the growing pains of love, is to remain enclosed in a dark cell.

Modern man is living in a dark cell; it is narcissistic. Narcissism is the greatest obsession of the modern mind. And then there are problems, problems which are meaningless.

There are problems which are creative because they lead you to higher awareness.

There are problems which lead you nowhere; they simply keep you tethered, they simply keep you in your old mess.


Love creates problems. You can avoid those problems by avoiding love. But those are very essential problems! They have to be faced, encountered; they have to be lived and gone through and gone beyond. And to go beyond, the way is through.


Love is the only real thing worth doing. All else is secondary. If it helps love, it is good.

All else is just a means, love is the end. So whatsoever the pain, go into love. If you don't go into love, as many people have decided, then you are stuck with yourself. Then your life is not a pilgrimage, then your life is not a river going to the ocean; your life is a stagnant pool, dirty, and soon there will be nothing but dirt and mud. To keep clean, one needs to keep flowing.


 A river remains clean because it goes on flowing. Flow is the process of remaining continuously virgin. A lover remains a virgin. All lovers are virgin.

The people who don't love cannot remain virgin; they become dormant, stagnant; they start stinking sooner or later -- and sooner than later -- because they have nowhere to go. Their life is dead. That's where modern man finds himself, and because of this, all kinds of neuroses, all kinds of madness, have become rampant.


Psychological illness has taken epidemic proportions. It is no more that a few individuals are psychologically ill; the reality is the whole earth has become a madhouse. The whole of humanity is suffering from a kind of neurosis. And that neurosis is coming from your narcissistic stagnancy. Everyone is stuck with one's own illusion of having a separate self; then people go mad. And this madness is meaningless, unproductive, creativeness. Or people start committing suicide.


Those suicides are also unproductive, creativeness  You may not commit suicide by taking poison or jumping from a cliff or by shooting yourself, but you can commit a suicide which is a very slow process, and that's what happens. Very few people commit suicide suddenly. Others have decided for a slow suicide; gradually, slowly, slowly they die. But almost, the tendency to be suicidal has become universal.

This is no way to live, and the reason, the fundamental reason, is we have forgotten the language of love. We are no more courageous enough to go into that adventure called love. Hence people are interested in sex, because sex is not risky. It is momentary, you don't get involved.



Love is involvement; it is commitment. It is not momentary. Once it takes roots, it can be forever. It can be a lifelong involvement. Love needs intimacy, and only when you are intimate does the other become a mirror. When you meet sexually with a woman or a man, you have not met at all; in fact, you avoided the soul of the other person. You just used the body and escaped, and the other used your body and escaped. You never became intimate enough to reveal each other's original faces.



Let there is pain, let there be suffering. Go through the dark night, and you will reach to a beautiful sunrise. It is only in the womb of the dark night that the sun evolves.

It is only through the dark night that the morning comes. My whole approach here is that of love. I teach only love and only love and nothing else.

You can forget about God; that is just an empty word. You can forget about prayers because they are only rituals imposed by others on you. Love is the natural prayer, not imposed by anybody. You are born with it.

Love is the true God -- not the God of theologians, but the God of Buddha, Jesus, Mohammed, the God of the Sufism.



Love is a method, to kill you as a separate individual and to help you become the infinite. Disappear as a dewdrop and become the ocean, but you will have to pass through the door of love. And certainly when one starts disappearing like a dewdrop, and one has lived long as a dewdrop, it hurts, because one has been thinking, "I am this, and now this is going. I am dying. " You are not dying, but only an illusion is dying.

You have become identified with the illusion, true, but the illusion is still an illusion. And only when the illusion is gone will you be able to see who you are. And that revelation brings you to the ultimate peak of joy, bliss, celebration.



written by beloved Osho

Wes Annac: Shifting Focus to Repair Our World

Wes Annac, Aquarius Channelings, January 07, 2013
Being in the position of “channeler” cannot always be the easiest task. Yes, the messages and inspiration from spirit and all of the entities who assist are wonderful to receive but the role it requires can garner one much more attention and potential difficulty than one would perhaps expect.
Of course, I’m not trying to discourage anybody who wants to become a channeler but at the same time, I’d want them to know what they are signing up for. Channeling can be the greatest role to fulfill and at times, the most difficult.
We can all open up and begin to receive the messages and inspiration from spirit; from the Galactics, the Ascended Masters or maybe even the entire Ascended Collective as a whole. We all have the ability to find this connection and at times, I worry that some may not be fashioning it. I worry about this because of the volume of widespread exposure and focus every channeled message is given.
At times, it is as if some wish to put channelers up on a pedestal that, speaking for myself at least, we do not tend to enjoy being on. I should state that I have no idea when the Galactics will make themselves known, when the Ascended Masters will be offering their assistance, or when the Company of Heaven will finally get matters off the ground.
I rely simply on the messages I’m being given, and I’m waiting just like the rest of you for a significant development that will at least help to begin validating what some still seem to need validated.
Personally, I don’t need the validation that everything we’re working toward is real; my multiple UFO sightings (as well as being able to telepathically interact with the ships and their crews) and a plethora of other experiences have shown me that this ascension is every bit as real as the sources helping us to bring it about.
Something I’m beginning to learn, however, is that they want us to do the work ourselves. They want us to turn inward and find their messages for ourselves. They want us to recognize the condition our world is in and begin to change it. They do not want us to look solely toward them, those who have found a connection with them, or anybody else but ourselves and each other – and by that I mean all of us.
They want us Lightworkers to begin introducing and initiating in any ways we can, peace and collective prosperity on this world. You may be reading this and thinking – how in the world can I possibly do that? I’m only one person facing a world of people who don’t want change….
Stop right there. You’re holding yourself back. Do you feel it?
Yes, it could seem pertinent to follow a channel or spiritual writer with all of oneself but truly, we are not supposed to. We can begin addressing the “unworkability” of this world as it has been called, together as a sentient Lightworker collective. Eventually, the rest of humanity will begin to catch on and from what we’ve heard about the increasing energy levels this year; it seems that they could catch on quite quickly.
Whether they do or not, this is our work to be done and our world to repair. As I’ve said in the past, I do think that some people’s focus should be changed from solely relying on outside sources and updates about where this world is headed, to turning within and finding such sources for oneself as well as beginning to work ourselves to repair this world, as we know we can.
Watching the negativity continue to be expressed surrounding the 21st, it is disheartening to know that so many people did not feel what I was able to. I also see the focus of some people and note what they expected to occur on the 21st, and it too is disheartening because truly, so very much happened and so many people felt this, but those who expected much more than was delivered have certainly expressed themselves and their disappointment.
Everything is being questioned at present and again, it is not quite easy to be a channeler or to have to answer for souls who I have indeed devoted myself to assisting and serving, but whose perspective I simply do not have.
We can ignore for the moment, the fact that there is a dedicated group of detractors who will take anything they can and use it to discredit or smear me or others in a similar position as me.
Recently, there was a person telling people I use drugs to channel and that I channel fake entities because of it. Something I write in this article that could be seen as offensive or unacceptable in any way, could be pounced on by five people if I post it on the right website. The same goes with the messages coming through me but again, we can ignore this for a moment.
If just one fellow awakening person who has not fashioned their inner-connection has had enough with predictions and discussions of a glorious New Age they have not yet felt, I or someone channeling similar entities to me will hear about it. Of course, I am happy to assist anyone who may be struggling but the problem is that some naturally assume because of my position as a channeler, that I have some kind of esoteric knowledge or heightened perspective that I do not express regularly in my writings or that my sources do not express in theirs.
My perspective is the same as yours from an Earthly standpoint; it is simply that I have attuned within to the messages of spirit, the same messages they will give you if you attune to them, and utilized such messages to help benefit fellow travelers. I have also recently discovered one of the most important facets of my mission here at this time which is namely, to assist and motivate.
Undergoing this role of helping the Earth to evolve entails naturally taking on the Earth’s densities. I face so many things about this world on a day to day basis that I know simply cannot survive in the higher vibrations and, like you, I have previously allowed myself to accept the density manufactured on this world and I still continue to deal with situations and people that are rooted in the very density we’re all ready to get away from.
I’m a person, just like you are. However, I do understand and accept that my role requires a bit more attention (someone will attack me for saying that) but it is simply that I cannot provide all of the answers, nor can I turn toward the sources coming through me to. We must find the answers and begin working to repair this world, and I will still be here to help and offer the messages coming through me, because so many of you have told me how helpful they are and I simply cannot ignore the call to serve.
If we see no manifestations and 2013 begins to draw to a close with nothing unique having been gained, I will refocus my goal and continue to work to repair this world in whatever ways are pertinent to do so.
Having been given the validations I have however, I know that this is all real and I will continue to remain dedicated to it, in the face of possibly being put up on a pedestal and of course, in the face of continued detraction, disbelief and sheer lies being spread about me. I’ve already allowed my name to be dragged through the mud before, and will continue to happily fulfill this role.
My only hopes are that the awakening collective realizes the need to turn more fully within rather than rely on a few fixed sources to deliver their spirituality to them, and that of course, the vibrations continue to lighten and we all begin to experience our wonderful New Earth.
At present, I’m seeing disappointment and for some, a loss of faith in the Galactics or other channeled sources because of brazen manifestations that have not yet come to pass. I honestly think we should not blame the Galactics or anyone else for this but ourselves. There is so much we can do and yet, we are not doing it. Do you see the problem?
I may try to take that break after all but really, I’m not sure. This may just be my vantage point and I hope it is, but the Lightworker energy at present just seems too difficult to move around in. The disbelief, disappointment and loss of faith is a bit overwhelming for someone who has experienced plentiful amazing things since this New Year began, and I hope to see the Lightworker public recalibrated and re-motivated so very soon.
Wes Annac – Expressing how I feel while others experience difficulty


Kerrie, I am not too good at copy and paste (big smile) so I am hoping this works when I go to post this interview with Sanni.

My request is that it is viewed with patience and understanding without judgement, just to listen.



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